What is RULER?

RULER is a research-based approach to social and emotional learning (SEL), developed by the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. It helps students, educators, and families build emotional intelligence skills and supports a positive school climate.

RULER focuses on five key skills:

  • Recognizing emotions in yourself and others.
  • Understanding the causes and effects of emotions.
  • Labeling emotions accurately.
  • Expressing emotions appropriately.
  • Regulating emotions effectively.

By teaching these “soft skills” with evidence-based methods, RULER strengthens how we learn, teach, parent, and lead.

RULER resources for families